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“She speaks with a gentle wisdom.”

— Proverbs 31:26, GNT

God has given women the powerful gift of influence in their relationships. Cynthia teaches women how to pursue wisdom, lead with a pure heart, and walk closely with Jesus—especially during hard seasons and transitions. The book of Proverbs provides the biblical insight women need for guarding their hearts, building their character, and growing their communication skills.

A Firm Foundation

Cynthia helps women anchor their identity and authority in Christ—not in culture or others’ opinions. Knowing who you are in Christ is the starting point for every healthy boundary in relationships. Expect biblical teaching, practical tools, and Wise Word Choices that build up your confidence and discover your newfound purpose.

Establishing Boundaries

Boundaries are your personal parameters within relationships. They’re not selfish—they’re God’s idea. Cynthia equips women to discern when to speak up, what to say, and how to say it with grace. Learn to set respectful limits that promote accountability, and honor God’s design—including saying a confident “no” when wisdom requires it.

Blindsided: The Book

BLINDSIDED helps people recognize and define narcissism, discern manipulation when it happens, and move forward in God-given confidence. Through a powerful blend of Scripture, practical tools, and biblical coaching, Cynthia helps lift the fog of confusion and leads you to the path of personal freedom.

  • Do you have a HARD time saying NO?

  • Are you in a CONTROLLING relationship?

  • Do you STRUGGLE getting RESPECT from others?

  • Are you EXHAUSTED from being a "People Pleaser"?

  • Do you wish you had a REAL VOICE in your relationships?

  • Do you want more RESPECT, but don’t have a CLUE how to GET it?

Stories of Hope
Real women. Real breakthroughs. Real freedom.

  • Being True to God and To Myself

    I was well into a 40-year marriage with a narcissistic husband whom I loved very much. Looking back on that time, I now realize that I was two different people: the woman with him and the woman away from him. When I was with him, I was who he expected me to be and when I was away from him I was the real me.

    When I discovered Cynthia’s ministry—through Boundaries and now Blindsided—I began to dig deep into God’s Word and realized it’s okay to be my true self all the time. What I needed to do was set up boundaries against narcissism. By the power of the Holy Spirit, I was given the strength and wisdom to do just this. Once godly boundaries were set up, I learned that it was God's will and that I could still love and be loved. God healed me to become the woman he had created me to be, all while still loving my husband but being true to God and to myself.

  • Healthy Changes in My Relationship

    I remember meeting Cynthia on one particular day. I tearfully looked at her and said, “I’m in an emotionally abusive relationship with my adult daughter.” That was my turning point. Cynthia looked at me and said, “You have been in an emotionally abusive relationship with your daughter, but that can actually change on your part starting today!”

    I have attended three of Cynthia's Boundaries workshops and have taken something new away each time. Wise word choices and setting needed boundaries have radically brought about healthy changes in my relationship. I'm excited as Cynthia's ministry is releasing Blindsided, a needed handbook on narcissism.

    May God mightily use her as she ministers to those who need to establish healthy boundaries in their toxic relationships!

  • Boundaries Changed My Life

    Taking Cynthia’s Boundaries class changed my life. It opened my eyes to how much pressure, guilt, and emotional weight I had been carrying for years — things I didn’t even recognize until they were exposed in the light of God’s truth.

    The class didn’t just show me the patterns; it gave me the tools to finally break them. I learned that boundaries aren’t selfish — they’re protective, healing, and deeply biblical. And as I began applying them, peace started filling places in my heart and home that had been tense for so long. My family feels the difference. I feel the difference. I’m no longer living in survival mode. I’m steadier, more present, and finally breathing again.

    I’m so grateful for how God used this class to completely shift the atmosphere of my life. It has been truly life-breathing.

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As a certified speaker, author, and boundaries coach, Cynthia offers transformative workshops and speaking engagements designed to help you embrace your worth, reclaim your time, and foster healthy relationships.

Her passion is to create an event or retreat that is uniquely designed for your group of women.

Cynthia looks forward to the opportunity to connect with you.

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